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A sweeping, emotionally overripe adult drama that blends family trauma, romance, and Southern gothic memory with real star power. It’s messy in places, but the performances, the tonal audacity, and the unusual warmth of its central relationship make it a compelling watch.
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Wed · 2h 12m
Director: Barbra Streisand
Starring: Nick Nolte, Barbra Streisand, Blythe Danner
A troubled Southern man talks to his suicidal sister's psychiatrist about their family history and falls in love with her (and New York City) in the process.
Barbra Streisand
Nick Nolte, Barbra Streisand, Blythe Danner
A sweeping, emotionally overripe adult drama that blends family trauma, romance, and Southern gothic memory with real star power. It’s messy in places, but the performances, the tonal audacity, and the unusual warmth of its central relationship make it a compelling watch.
The Prince of Tides is the kind of Hollywood drama that feels both shameless and sincere. It swings from domestic comedy to painful childhood revelation to glossy New York romance, and somehow the movie’s confidence keeps those pieces from collapsing into each other. Barbra Streisand directs with a clear eye for emotional texture and adult conversation, while Nick Nolte gives the film its bruised, weathered center.
What makes it linger is the odd balance between self-importance and genuine feeling. The family trauma material is intense, sometimes almost too intense, but the movie also has room for humor, tenderness, and a surprisingly appealing romantic glow. It’s very much a product of its era: polished, talky, therapeutic, and a little indulgent, but also unusually willing to treat middle-aged longing as worthy of grand treatment.
The result is not a perfect film, but it is a distinctive one. If you respond to movies that are emotionally maximal, actor-forward, and unafraid of being a little excessive, this is an easy recommendation. If you need restraint, you’ll probably bounce off it; if you like your melodrama with intelligence and star charisma, it delivers.
Patrick Willems (4★) · 395 likes
Few things better than watching a movie and suddenly understanding the origin of a Simpsons joke you've been quoting since you were a kid also it's insane that this movie goes from an extended comedy subplot about Nolte teaching Babs' nerdy son to play football right into Straw Dogs-level harrowing shit and somehow stays on the rails. Wish Babs had made more movies!
Tess (3.5★) · 279 likes
I have now watched ten Barbra Streisand films in two weeks and as I drag myself around letterboxd logging these films I am BOMBARDED with terrible takes from men about Babs. Always unnecessarily personal and petty, occasionally about how you were 'surprised' you found her attractive or some dross about "vanity projects". Please I beg you... go away.... go watch something else and leave me in peace. Regarding the filmè... DID YOU SEE HER HAIR?! PHENOMENAL.
Sean Fennessey (3★) · 223 likes
I’ve been embarking on an unfocused review of ‘90s bourgeoise cinema. Clintonian examinations of Freudian middle-aged distress hiding unexamined portraits of class comfort and movie star beauty. I’d never seen this example, and it has all the tics, for better and worse. Long, self-pitying exchanges between educated, dyspeptic baby boomers, blessed with articulation and feathery hair. Still, I love Nick Nolte, an odd mash-up of Paul Newman and Lee Marvin—smooth yet gravel-toned, fast-talking and balletic, fixing to explode like a
fran hoepfner (3★) · 185 likes
I wish I had a more Jewish name that someone could fetishize
David Sims (4★) · 139 likes
so many scenes outside M&O Deli!!!!
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prestige drama, romantic drama, Southern gothic, family secrets, psychological trauma, 1990s cinema, adult relationships, melodrama, character-driven, star vehicle