A very 2000s sex-comedy-romance with an awkwardly earnest heart, but also a lot of male-gaze fantasy and uneven handling of Danielle’s character. It works best as a time-capsule teen comedy with surprising sweetness and a strong supporting cast, less as a thoughtful romance.
Exceptionally ambitious high schooler Matthew has aspirations for a career in politics when he falls in love with his gorgeous 19-year-old neighbor, Danielle. But Matthew's bright future is jeopardized when he finds Danielle was once a porn star. As Danielle's past catches up with her, Matthew's love for her forces him to re-evaluate his goals.
Director
Luke Greenfield
Cast
Emile Hirsch, Elisha Cuthbert, Timothy Olyphant
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Verdict
A very 2000s sex-comedy-romance with an awkwardly earnest heart, but also a lot of male-gaze fantasy and uneven handling of Danielle’s character. It works best as a time-capsule teen comedy with surprising sweetness and a strong supporting cast, less as a thoughtful romance.
Best for
Viewers nostalgic for early-2000s teen comedies
Fans of awkward coming-of-age stories with a raunchy edge
People who enjoy movies that mix sincerity with broad comedy
Skip if
You want a modern or nuanced take on sex work
You’re sensitive to misogynistic framing or objectification
You dislike cringe-heavy teen comedy and tonal whiplash
Overview
The Girl Next Door is one of those early-2000s movies that feels both shameless and strangely sincere. It borrows the structure of a horny teen fantasy, then tries to turn it into a story about growing up, ambition, and seeing another person beyond the story you’ve built around them. That tension is the movie’s biggest asset and its biggest problem.
Worth noting
The cast helps a lot. Emile Hirsch sells Matthew’s earnestness, and the supporting players give the film more comic energy than its premise deserves. There are also flashes of real melancholy under the jokes, which is why the movie lingers more than a disposable sex comedy usually does.
Bottom line
Still, the film is very much trapped in a male-fantasy perspective, and Danielle is often more concept than character. If you can accept that limitation, it’s a watchable relic of its era: messy, crude, occasionally sweet, and unmistakably of its time.
Top Letterboxd reviews
ethanscalione (3.5★) · 5095 likes
paul dano has a huge dick
lovelytropico ♰ (3★) · 4816 likes
i could definitely tell it was directed by a man
manilazic (2★) · 3267 likes
I want a remake that focuses on the actual girl next door rather than on the fantasy-world of the boy. She could also have feelings and thoughts of her own! That'd be nice.
Bianca · 2187 likes
was not at ALL prepared for an elliott smith song only 4 minutes in
Eli Hayes (3.5★) · 2063 likes
"Eli, do those girls go to your school?" "Actually, no, Mrs. Kidman, they're porn stars."
2010 · Comedy · 1h 33m · PG-13 · Where to watch: Paramount Plus Premium, Paramount Plus Essential
A sharper, more self-aware high-school comedy about reputation, desire, and social performance.
Themes
coming of age, first love, sexual awakening, male fantasy, identity and self-image, ambition and adulthood, public image versus private self, redemption
Topics
2000s, teen comedy, romantic comedy, coming-of-age, raunchy, awkward, male gaze, nostalgic, sex work, dramedy