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A lush, feverish romantic drama with striking visual control and a strong sense of yearning, but its deliberately elusive characters and drifting narrative will leave some viewers cold. It’s best approached as an atmosphere piece about desire, loneliness, and self-erasure rather than a conventional love story.

Queer

Where to watch: Buy

Movie · Drama · Romance

Wed · 2h 18m

Director: Luca Guadagnino

Starring: Daniel Craig, Drew Starkey, Jason Schwartzman

Overview

In 1950s Mexico City, William Lee, an American ex-pat in his late forties, leads a solitary life amidst a small American community. However, the arrival in town of Eugene Allerton, a young student, stirs William into finally establishing a meaningful connection with someone.

Director

Luca Guadagnino

Cast

Daniel Craig, Drew Starkey, Jason Schwartzman

Curator Review

Verdict

A lush, feverish romantic drama with striking visual control and a strong sense of yearning, but its deliberately elusive characters and drifting narrative will leave some viewers cold. It’s best approached as an atmosphere piece about desire, loneliness, and self-erasure rather than a conventional love story.

Best for

  • Viewers who like sensual, mood-driven cinema
  • Fans of psychologically unstable romance
  • People interested in queer desire and loneliness on film
  • Viewers open to surreal, impressionistic storytelling

Skip if

  • You want a clear, plot-forward romance
  • You need emotionally accessible characters
  • You dislike slow, opaque, or highly stylized films
  • You prefer grounded realism over dreamlike eroticism

Overview

Queer is less interested in romance as comfort than as compulsion. Luca Guadagnino turns longing into a tactile, uneasy experience: bodies brush, rooms sweat, and every glance feels charged with need and uncertainty. Daniel Craig gives the film its bruised center, playing a man whose desire is inseparable from loneliness and self-delusion.

Worth noting

The film’s greatest strength is its atmosphere. It is seductive, disorienting, and often beautiful in a way that feels psychologically exact rather than merely decorative. The imagery and sound design work together to create a fever dream of obsession, one that keeps slipping away from easy interpretation.

Bottom line

That same quality is also why it may not fully connect for everyone. The characters are intentionally opaque, and the story can feel more like a series of emotional states than a dramatic arc. If that approach clicks, the film can feel haunting and transfixing; if it doesn’t, it may seem distant and frustrating.

Top Letterboxd reviews

pieboni (4★) · 19257 likes

boners and all

iana (5★) · 17353 likes

luca films bodies like no one else. entangled legs sharing heat, the phantom touch of a hand gliding across a ribcage, desiring someone so deeply that you want to quite literally sink into their skin.

zoë rose bryant (5★) · 15907 likes

who among us hasn’t had a psychotic break over a situationship with a toxic but beautiful twink

Jay (4★) · 13377 likes

more directors should lure you in with hot gay summer before taking you on a psychological nightmare

Lucy (3★) · 11037 likes

what the hell, sure

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Themes

desire, loneliness, obsession, queer identity, emotional isolation, self-delusion, yearning, psychological instability

Topics

queer romance, psychological drama, erotic drama, surreal mood, yearning, loneliness, obsession, expatriate life, 1950s setting, art-house

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