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My Old Ass

A warm, funny coming-of-age dramedy with a clever high-concept hook, strong emotional payoff, and a surprisingly tender view of family, identity, and first love. It’s especially appealing if you like character-driven indie comedies that balance sharp jokes with genuine feeling.

My Old Ass

Where to watch: Buy

Movie · Comedy · Drama

Fri · 1h 29m

Director: Megan Park

Starring: Maisy Stella, Aubrey Plaza, Percy Hynes White

Overview

An 18th birthday mushroom trip brings free-spirited Elliott face-to-face with her wisecracking 39-year-old self. But when Elliott’s "old ass" starts handing out warnings about what her younger self should and shouldn't do, Elliott realizes she has to rethink everything about family, love, and what's becoming a transformative summer.

Director

Megan Park

Cast

Maisy Stella, Aubrey Plaza, Percy Hynes White

Curator Review

Verdict

A warm, funny coming-of-age dramedy with a clever high-concept hook, strong emotional payoff, and a surprisingly tender view of family, identity, and first love. It’s especially appealing if you like character-driven indie comedies that balance sharp jokes with genuine feeling.

Best for

  • fans of bittersweet coming-of-age stories
  • viewers who like queer-adjacent self-discovery narratives
  • audiences drawn to time-bending or high-concept dramedies
  • people who want a heartfelt, easy-to-watch festival-style comedy

Skip if

  • you want a plot-heavy or twisty comedy
  • you dislike stoner-movie premises
  • you prefer very broad, joke-dense teen comedies
  • you’re looking for a darker or more cynical take on adulthood

Overview

My Old Ass works because it treats a goofy premise with real emotional sincerity. The time-travel-by-mushroom-trip setup is a joke on paper, but the movie uses it to explore the messiness of growing up, the fear of change, and the way family history sneaks up on you when you least expect it.

Worth noting

Megan Park keeps the tone light without sanding off the ache underneath. The film is funniest when it leans into Elliott’s bluntness and self-mythologizing, but it lands best when it lets the summer atmosphere breathe and allows the character relationships to feel lived-in rather than neatly resolved.

Bottom line

It’s not trying to be a huge statement movie, and that’s part of its charm. What it offers instead is a sincere, modern coming-of-age story with a strong emotional aftertaste, the kind that makes you text your mom, think about your younger self, and maybe forgive both of them a little more.

Top Letterboxd reviews

mia (4.5★) · 9348 likes

The Saoirse Ronan wall is too real.

jeaba (4★) · 8428 likes

the next time i do shrooms i’m summoning aubrey plaza

Lennon (0.5★) · 7205 likes

yeah yeah bisexuality is valid and all that but if you make a movie about a girl who's so sure shes a lesbian and fucks women and talks about her dreams about her future wife until she meets the Perfect Man literally named Chad im gonna have a hard time not throwing my fucking drink at the screen. like, idk, im trying to be reasonable bc i doubt it was intended like that, but also im not sure ive ever… more

Amanda the Jedi · 6924 likes

Movies need to stop reminding me how fast time passes. Be young and dumb.

grace (3★) · 4936 likes

the biggest gift and the greatest curse is literally the passage of time

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Themes

coming of age, self-discovery, family relationships, first love, queer identity, time and regret, generational perspective, summer nostalgia

Topics

coming-of-age, dramedy, queer awakening, time travel, summer nostalgia, family dynamics, first love, indie comedy, emotional, self-discovery

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