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Eighth Grade

A painfully accurate, empathetic coming-of-age film that captures the awkwardness, isolation, and self-consciousness of early adolescence with unusual honesty. Its humor is gentle but the emotional sting is real, and the filmmaking makes everyday teenage anxiety feel cinematic.

Eighth Grade

Where to watch: Buy

Movie · Comedy · Drama

Fri · 1h 34m

Director: Bo Burnham

Starring: Elsie Fisher, Josh Hamilton, Emily Robinson

Overview

Thirteen-year-old Kayla endures the tidal wave of contemporary suburban adolescence as she makes her way through the last week of middle school — the end of her thus far disastrous eighth grade year — before she begins high school.

Director

Bo Burnham

Cast

Elsie Fisher, Josh Hamilton, Emily Robinson

Curator Review

Verdict

A painfully accurate, empathetic coming-of-age film that captures the awkwardness, isolation, and self-consciousness of early adolescence with unusual honesty. Its humor is gentle but the emotional sting is real, and the filmmaking makes everyday teenage anxiety feel cinematic.

Best for

  • Viewers who like intimate, realistic coming-of-age stories
  • Anyone who remembers middle school as socially brutal
  • Fans of awkward comedy with sincere emotional payoff
  • Parents or educators looking for a truthful teen portrait

Skip if

  • You want a broad, joke-heavy teen comedy
  • You prefer fast pacing and big plot turns
  • Secondhand embarrassment is hard for you
  • You’re looking for a glossy or nostalgic high-school fantasy

Overview

Eighth Grade is one of the sharpest portraits of adolescence in recent memory because it refuses to romanticize it. Kayla’s world is full of tiny humiliations, half-formed confidence, and the constant pressure to perform a version of herself that feels acceptable online and in person. The result is funny, but the laughter is always edged with recognition and discomfort.

Worth noting

What makes it stand out is the film’s patience with small moments: a look, a pause, a phone scroll, a car ride that feels like a battlefield. It understands that middle school is often less about dramatic events than about the daily effort to survive being perceived. That specificity gives the movie its emotional force.

Bottom line

The film also has a real tenderness beneath the cringe. It doesn’t mock Kayla or the people around her; it sees how hard everyone is trying, even when they fail. By the end, the movie feels less like a memory than a bruise that has finally started to heal.

Top Letterboxd reviews

#1 gizmo fan (5★) · 9859 likes

The car scene broke me into a trillion pieces. It tore me down, ripped me of my skin and then let me bleed. But after the movie was over, it bandaged me and I could breathe. I've been where she was. The youngest one in the room, left alone with some guy way older and way stupider. When you're 13, you never really say what you want until you've been taken to your line. You agree and agree and agree,… more

cathy (4.5★) · 9140 likes

Kayla: gucci! 👌 me (through tears): gucci 👌

demi adejuyigbe (5★) · 7714 likes

three (non-spoilery) thoughts from a second viewing: 1) the final scene of this movie is maybe my favorite scene of any movie released this year 2) there’s a scene where kayla is walking around and talking nervously on the phone, shot in a mid-close up with the camera following her as she walks back and forth, passing a big window. when she passes the window, the light shining through is like a sudden, disorienting flash, and when combined with the constant… more

sophie (4.5★) · 6404 likes

the fact that someone shouts "lebron james" more than once in this shows how true to real life it is

molly (5★) · 4570 likes

my stomach DROPPED when i heard “truth or dare?”

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Themes

coming of age, adolescence, social anxiety, loneliness, self-image, online identity, parent-child relationship, middle school

Topics

coming-of-age, teen drama, awkward comedy, social anxiety, suburban life, digital identity, female adolescence, indie realism, emotional honesty, cringe humor

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