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Definitely, Maybe

A warm, lightly wistful rom-com that balances a clever framing device with genuine emotional payoff. It’s especially appealing if you like relationship puzzles, ensemble chemistry, and a nostalgic early-2000s New York feel.

Definitely, Maybe

Where to watch: Buy

Movie · Comedy · Romance

Fri · 1h 52m

Director: Adam Brooks

Starring: Ryan Reynolds, Abigail Breslin, Elizabeth Banks

Overview

When Will decides to tell his daughter the story of how he met her mother, he discovers that a second look at the past might also give him a second chance at the future.

Director

Adam Brooks

Cast

Ryan Reynolds, Abigail Breslin, Elizabeth Banks

Curator Review

Verdict

A warm, lightly wistful rom-com that balances a clever framing device with genuine emotional payoff. It’s especially appealing if you like relationship puzzles, ensemble chemistry, and a nostalgic early-2000s New York feel.

Best for

  • fans of smart, sentimental romantic comedies
  • viewers who like stories told through flashbacks and multiple love interests
  • people who enjoy bittersweet father-daughter dynamics
  • audiences looking for an easy comfort watch with some emotional bite

Skip if

  • you want a very original or high-concept romance
  • you dislike narration-heavy storytelling
  • you prefer rom-coms with sharper comedy or more modern pacing
  • you’re not interested in family framing devices or past-tense relationship retrospectives

Overview

Definitely, Maybe is the kind of rom-com that knows its own tricks and still lands them. The framing story gives the movie a pleasing puzzle-box structure, while the central question of who ends up with whom is handled with enough charm to keep the emotional stakes alive. It’s polished, easy to watch, and more thoughtful than its breezy setup suggests.

Worth noting

Ryan Reynolds plays the role with a mix of self-deprecation and sincerity that keeps the movie from feeling too slick. The supporting women are written as distinct possibilities rather than interchangeable types, which helps the film feel like a genuine memory piece instead of a mechanical dating-game comedy. The result is a movie that works both as a romantic guessing game and as a reflection on how people revise their own pasts.

Bottom line

It’s not a radical reinvention of the genre, but it has enough warmth, structure, and emotional honesty to earn its place as a comfort watch. If you like your romances with a little melancholy under the sweetness, this one is easy to recommend.

Top Letterboxd reviews

daisy (3★) · 1550 likes

will telling maya she’s the happy ending...yea we cried, we cried

Emma (4★) · 1525 likes

this is the kind of GARBAGE that makes the BLOOD PUMP IN MY VEINS

eve 🍭 (3★) · 1224 likes

isla fisher i lov u bitch. i aint gon never stop lovin u ..... biiitch

clownhead (3★) · 1065 likes

none of y’all TOLD ME that elizabeth banks and rachel weisz HAVE CANONICALLY DATED IN THIS MOVIE. is that not the KIND OF INFORMATION I SHOULD KNOW

Aliza (3.5★) · 775 likes

the most unrealistic part of this movie is that the kid didn't want rachel weisz to be her mom. baffling

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Themes

romantic uncertainty, memory and hindsight, parent-child relationships, second chances, urban nostalgia, relationship history, self-reckoning, emotional closure

Topics

romantic comedy, ensemble romance, flashback structure, nostalgic, bittersweet, comfort watch, father-daughter relationship, early 2000s, New York City, relationship drama

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