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C.R.A.Z.Y.

A deeply felt coming-of-age drama with strong period detail, vivid music cues, and a sharp sense of family tension. It stands out for balancing humor, pain, and tenderness while tracing identity against a conservative household.

C.R.A.Z.Y.

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Movie · Comedy · Drama

Fri · 2h 6m

Director: Jean-Marc Vallée

Starring: Marc-André Grondin, Danielle Proulx, Michel Côté

Overview

A young French Canadian, one of five boys in a conservative family in the 1960s and 1970s, struggles to reconcile his emerging identity with his father's values.

Director

Jean-Marc Vallée

Cast

Marc-André Grondin, Danielle Proulx, Michel Côté

Curator Review

Verdict

A deeply felt coming-of-age drama with strong period detail, vivid music cues, and a sharp sense of family tension. It stands out for balancing humor, pain, and tenderness while tracing identity against a conservative household.

Best for

  • coming-of-age dramas
  • LGBTQ+ stories
  • family conflict films
  • music-driven period pieces
  • viewers who like emotional but stylish filmmaking

Skip if

  • you want a fast, plot-heavy narrative
  • you prefer understated realism with little stylistic flourish
  • family dysfunction and homophobia are too stressful

Overview

C.R.A.Z.Y. is a warm, bruised, and very specific coming-of-age story that turns a Quebec family saga into something universal. It follows a boy trying to understand himself inside a loud, affectionate, deeply conservative home, and the film gets a lot of its power from how ordinary that struggle feels even when the emotions are extreme.

Worth noting

Jean-Marc Vallée gives the movie a fluid, expressive style that never overwhelms the characters. The soundtrack choices do a lot of emotional work, but the film is strongest when it lets family rituals, sibling dynamics, and the father-son tension accumulate into something painful and recognizable.

Bottom line

What makes it linger is the mix of tenderness and embarrassment, comedy and repression. It is funny without being glib, sad without becoming inert, and it has the kind of lived-in specificity that makes a personal story feel bigger than its setting.

Top Letterboxd reviews

maaike (3.5★) · 911 likes

the poor mom having to live with six men omg

Anna C. Grajales (4.5★) · 636 likes

This walked so Xavier Dolan’s entire career could run.

🐸 · 610 likes

I am at all times thinking about that scene where he sings Space Oddity in his room

inês (3.5★) · 387 likes

yes to teenagers coming to terms with who they are with a little help from david bowie

gluten_free (4★) · 356 likes

Make le Québec gay again

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Themes

coming of age, sexual identity, family conflict, father-son tension, Catholic upbringing, repression, queer awakening, sibling dynamics

Topics

coming-of-age, LGBTQ+, family drama, queer awakening, 1970s, period piece, music-driven, emotional, Catholic guilt, stylized realism

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