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A Very Long Engagement

A lush, melancholy romance wrapped in a war mystery, with strong emotional payoff and striking visual style. It’s especially rewarding if you like patient investigations, doomed love stories, and films that balance tenderness with bleak historical detail.

A Very Long Engagement

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Movie · Drama · Romance

Wed · 2h 13m

Director: Jean-Pierre Jeunet

Starring: Audrey Tautou, Gaspard Ulliel, Dominique Pinon

Overview

Young Frenchwoman Mathilde searches for the truth about her missing fiancé, lost during World War I, and learns many unexpected things along the way. The love of her life is gone. But she refuses to believe he's gone forever — and she needs to know for sure.

Director

Jean-Pierre Jeunet

Cast

Audrey Tautou, Gaspard Ulliel, Dominique Pinon

Curator Review

Verdict

A lush, melancholy romance wrapped in a war mystery, with strong emotional payoff and striking visual style. It’s especially rewarding if you like patient investigations, doomed love stories, and films that balance tenderness with bleak historical detail.

Best for

  • romance fans who don’t mind heartbreak
  • viewers who like mystery-driven dramas
  • fans of World War I stories
  • people who enjoy highly stylized French cinema
  • audiences drawn to earnest, emotional storytelling

Skip if

  • you want a fast-paced war film
  • you dislike heightened visual design
  • you prefer straightforward historical realism
  • you’re looking for a light or breezy romance

Overview

Jean-Pierre Jeunet turns a missing-person mystery into something both intimate and sweeping. The film follows Mathilde with real persistence and affection, letting her stubborn hope become the engine of the story. What could have been a simple wartime melodrama instead becomes a layered search through grief, rumor, and memory.

Worth noting

The movie’s visual world is unmistakable: warm yellows, soft greens, and a slightly dreamlike texture that makes the past feel haunted rather than merely recreated. That stylization won’t work for everyone, but it gives the film a distinct emotional temperature. Audrey Tautou anchors it beautifully, making Mathilde feel fragile, funny, and determined all at once.

Bottom line

It’s a romance, but not a conventional one. The real pleasure is in the accumulation of details and revelations, and in the way the film keeps asking what love means when certainty is impossible. If you want a war-era love story with atmosphere, mystery, and a genuine ache at its center, this is an easy recommendation.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Haddad (4.5★) · 186 likes

Why are you crying ?

suzie (4★) · 145 likes

MATHILDE M (aime) MANECH

Rafael "Mister Movie" Jovine (4★) · 125 likes

A woman looks for the love of his life, even though she's constantly told he has perished on war. So hey! Did you know the dude that made the creepily quirky "Delicatessen" and "Amelie" has also a war film under his belt starring the star of his most famous work? He does, and its quite good. As it tends to be with many Jeunet work, the cinematography is simply stunning. I haven't seen a better use of yellow and green… more

raphael_vct · 100 likes

La balance des blancs du film est tellement mal réglée c’est une dinguerie y’a tout qu’est jaune (Tsais le mec qui connaît pas Jean pierre jeunet)

layzon (5★) · 90 likes

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Themes

lost love, war aftermath, search and discovery, grief and hope, memory and trauma, romantic longing, female determination, historical mystery

Topics

romantic drama, war mystery, World War I, melancholy, stylized visuals, French cinema, period piece, heartbreak, investigation, lush cinematography

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